Many books have been written on this subject but to try to keep it simple - it is best described as colours. There are no hard and fast rules or is it anyway complete but will give you an idea to base our discussions on when we meet as to your wants, needs and desires.
The colours somewhat align with the colours of our chakras.
White Tantra - a very spiritual experience and focuses on our connection. This usually includes the ritual based on conscious
breathing practice and visualization and typically the massage is very sensual in that it stimulates and arouses all of your senses.
Pink Tantra - a blending of both white and red tantra - so focusing on the spiritual aspects and the sensual and erotic needs. This can include the ritual based on conscious breathing practice
and visualization to honour our spiritual connection and typically includes a yoni or lingham massage. This is for both a loving connection and the sensual and erotic needs and the client usually
receives a very giving experience.
Red Tantra – the focus of this is on pleasurable sensations, sensuality and sexuality. A very erotic experience and typically includes yoni or lingham massage leading to orgasm with a
possibility of Kundalini Awakening. Kundalini awakening, in this instance, refers to more intense pleasurable physical sensations - such as a full body orgasm but one which is more of a sensual than
purely sexual experience.
Black Tantra - this focuses on manipulation and control. It incorporates elements of BDSM, fetish acts, tie and tease, submission and domination & humiliation - elements of what we know of
nowadays as BDSM. It involves restraint, power play and stretching the senses beyond sensuous and light. It may include depriving of one more of the senses or accentuating one or more - such as mild
pain etc. For this there must be trust and communication between us and so is not suggested or offered for any first or even second appointment, as we need to get to know each other initially
or to anyone new to Tantra.
I hope this gives an idea of the breadth of tantra - this may just be what your boundaries are at the time we are in the now - but this must be discussed when we meet. Please remember, boundaries may
change many times during the appointment as we are in the “NOW”, therefore communication between us during the appointment is very necessary.