Can I touch you?

I often get asked 'can I touch you?' & in Tantra treatments, the answer is 'yes'. 

Tantra uses the senses - so slow, sensual, soft touch is invited. So touching is 'allowed' but in a 'Tantric way' - in a slow, gentle, sensuous, respectful touch, not heavy handed or rough - and at all times with mutual respect and recognising boundaries. Touch is only appropriate in Tantra treatments and not part of other traditional / standard treatments.

My role is to balance your Chakras, help you relax & then build up your energies. I obviously have to keep control of that build up and flow of energy & if I see that you are getting too intense or losing control by going too far or those energies are building too quickly, then its my job to reign things in and try slow things down to help you keep control. Remember - Tantra is about the journey.

Some clients do not respect my role of keeping control and attempt to dominate me & take over that control. If they are unable to respect me in my role, I will then ask that they seek an alternative therapist as I do not wish to see you as a client, if that is your sole mindset.

These treatments are in a 'non-sexual, safe space' and therefore no sexual services are implied, offered or given - and I would ask are not requested. These boundaries must be recognised and respected.

Furthermore, failure to repeatedly respect my boundaries, even after being advised so, may result in me having to terminate the treatment - and if this happens then no refund is appropriate.

There maybe some body to body contact but all all times I wish to stay connected to the earth and grounded, so my feet remain safely on the floor.

This my style of Tantra treatments & the way that I offer Tantra appointments.